Relationship with Self

Where Are You in Your Relationship With Yourself?

The Relationship with Self Assessment helps you reflect on how you currently relate to your own thoughts, emotions, needs, limitations, decisions, worth, and protective responses.

The goal is not to tell you who you are. It is to help you notice where relational experiences may be carrying weight within your relationship with yourself and give you a clearer place to begin reflecting.

This is an invitation into self-awareness, not a diagnosis, personality label, or judgment of whether your responses are right or wrong.

Before You Begin

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There are no right or wrong results. Choose the answer that most honestly reflects the impact each experience has on you.

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WHAT HAPPENS AFTER YOUR ASSESSMENT

Your Results Are a Starting Point.

After completing the Relationship with Self assessment, you’ll receive a relational snapshot designed to help you see where the seven Relational ROOTS™ may be carrying weight for you right now.

01

Your Relational Snapshot

See how Trust, Safety, Security, Connection, Importance, Acceptance, and Protection are showing up in your current reported experience.

02

Your Primary Areas for Reflection

Identify the ROOTS carrying the greatest reported weight as a place to begin, not as a permanent label, diagnosis, or explanation of cause.

03

Your Personalized Insight Journey

Go deeper into the meaning, protective responses, and growth invitations connected to your results through a more personalized reflection experience.

INSIDE YOUR PERSONALIZED INSIGHT JOURNEY

Preview the Chapters

Select a chapter below to see what that part of the journey is designed to help you explore.

01 Locate · Where Are You?

Notice what is carrying the greatest relational weight before trying to explain or change it.

02 Understand · Understanding Your ROOT

Learn what your Primary ROOT represents and what healthy support may look like.

03 Recognize · Common Relational Experiences

Notice experiences and emotions connected to the way your Primary ROOT may be showing up in this relational domain.

04 Interpret · The Stories We Begin to Believe

Explore the meanings and stories that may have grown from relational experiences.

05 Protect · Protecting What Matters

Understand protective responses and begin creating room for more intentional choices.

06 Receive · What Is Becoming Clear

Pause with what is becoming clearer, what still needs reflection, and what may be useful to carry forward.

07 Grow · Growing with Intention

Choose practical and sustainable ways to strengthen a healthier, more intentional response.

08 Reflect · Looking Back Before Moving Forward

Recognize what has become clearer and what you want to carry forward from the journey.