Notice what is carrying weight.
See which relational areas stand out most strongly in the domain you chose and use them as a starting point for reflection.
RELATIONAL ROOTS™ ASSESSMENTS
Where Are You, Relationally?
Choose one relational domain and explore where Trust, Safety, Security, Connection, Importance, Acceptance, and Protection may be carrying weight for you right now.
Relationship with Self · Relationship with Others · Relationship with God
Relational ROOTS™ assessments are guided self-awareness tools. They do not diagnose you, determine another person’s motives, or replace licensed professional care.
LOCATE. UNDERSTAND. GROW.
Start with awareness before trying to change the relationship.
Relational ROOTS™ helps you slow down and examine your own relational experience. The goal is not to assign a label. It is to give you language for what may be carrying weight and create a clearer starting point for reflection.
Look beneath the visible response.
Consider what an experience may have come to mean and what your response may be trying to preserve, regain, or protect.
Consider what belongs to you now.
Use greater awareness to reflect on responsibility, boundaries, support, repair, and a more intentional response moving forward.
CHOOSE YOUR FOCUS
Three relationships. The same seven ROOTS.
Select the relationship you want to explore. Each pathway asks the relational questions within a different domain.
Relationship with Self
Explore how you relate to your own thoughts, emotions, needs, decisions, worth, limitations, and protective responses.
Where am I in my relationship with myself?
Self AssessmentRelationship with Others
Explore how you experience trust, vulnerability, stability, closeness, significance, acceptance, and protection in relationships with other people.
Where am I in my relationships with others?
Others AssessmentRelationship with God
Explore how you experience and understand God’s character, presence, trustworthiness, acceptance, protection, and invitation into relationship.
Where am I in my relationship with God?
God Assessment
HOW IT WORKS
A guided starting point for relational self-awareness.
You do not need to know what your “ROOT” is before you begin. Simply choose a relational domain and respond honestly to the experiences presented.
Choose Your Focus
Begin with your relationship with Self, Others, or God.
Reflect Honestly
Respond to relational experiences based on how they affect you, rather than how you think you should answer.
Receive Your Snapshot
See how the seven Relational ROOTS™ are showing up in your reported experience at this point in time.
Go Deeper
Use your results and optional personalized resources to explore meaning, protection, reflection, and intentional growth.
WHAT YOU’LL RECEIVE
Your results are a starting point, not an identity.
After completing an assessment, you receive a relational snapshot designed to help you reflect on where you are. Deeper personalized resources can help you continue the journey beyond the initial result.
Your Seven-ROOT Snapshot
See how Trust, Safety, Security, Connection, Importance, Acceptance, and Protection appear across your current reported experience.
Your Primary Areas for Reflection
Identify the ROOTS carrying the greatest reported weight as a place to begin and not as a permanent label or explanation of cause.
Personalized Insight
Go deeper into relational meaning, protective responses, reflection, and possible growth invitations through your Personalized Insight Report.
A Next Step
Continue with reflection resources, guided journeys, or other Relational ROOTS™ tools as they become available.
PERSONALIZED INSIGHT REPORT
Begin With an Assessment
Want more than the snapshot?
Your deeper report is designed to help you explore what may be beneath your results without turning those results into a diagnosis, fixed identity, or explanation for another person’s behavior.
READ YOUR RESULTS WITH CARE
Your score tells you what carried impact, not why.
A result does not prove that your past caused your response, that another person is unsafe, that you are “too sensitive,” or that one ROOT permanently defines you.
Present circumstances, personal history, relational context, interpretation, harmful treatment, spiritual understanding, and other factors can all matter. The assessment creates a structured place to begin asking better questions.
What happened matters. What another person did matters. Your awareness of what is happening within you matters too.
BEFORE YOU BEGIN
There are no “good” ROOTS or “bad” ROOTS.
Give yourself permission to answer from your actual experience instead of trying to produce a particular result.
Answer Honestly
Respond based on what is true for you right now, not what you wish were true.
Stay With Your Experience
The assessment is about your reported relational experience and not diagnosing someone else.
Allow for Context
A strong response can reflect many things. Your result is an invitation to investigate, not a verdict about why you feel what you feel.
Mobile Beta Notice
Relational ROOTS™ can be completed on your phone, but results and personalized reports are currently best viewed on a laptop or desktop during this beta release.